Happiness is by Choice

By: admin Mood: Full of life Date: Mar 20, 2008 Music: None

A few days ago I was talking to a friend who had been feeling down lately because of his work stress. He told me he was feeling great that day and a few weeks ago since he met up with one of his friends for lunch. Long story short, his friend has been working with a life coach who she pays $1,500 a month for only 4 hours of meeting each month. I thought she was crazy until my friend told me that she said the life coach had changed her life. So anyhow, his friend told him that you should start feeling good about yourself and each everyday in your life. You will attract negative energy if you feel sad or stressed out, You will also attract positive energy if you feel great about yourself and everything else! She told him to try it every morning when he wakes up he should tell himself that IT'S GOING TO BE A GREAT DAY IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT HAPPENS! He tried one morning and some strange results happened to him. He wished for a great parking spot and he got it! He also told himself that he would close a couple deals that day and he accomplished that also! Since that day he has been consistently being happy every single day!! So I thought that was amazing. It kind of reminded me what I believe that positive attitude attracts positive energy! I wanted to give it a try as well! Yesterday was my first day trying it and here's what happened through out the day!

In the morning, just like what he said I told myself it was going to be a great day no matter what happens! I wanted to some how meet a girl and I had no idea how? I wished to have a great day at work! First thing first, as soon as I got into the office, I told my friend that it was going to be a great day! immediately the energy level already started high for the day! I had a meeting with a high profile client and the meeting went very well. there was definitely a high chance that I may get the deal. She also introduced me to a few of her close friends who are also very wealthy as well. After the meeting I decided to meet up with some friends at a coffee shop. Since I was in a good mood and with a positive attitude. I felt like I definitely brought our energy level much higher and we had a great time talking at the coffee shop. I also got a phone call from a girl who I hadn't talked to for a while and were supposed to meet us for a date! She said she was moving to the Bayarea this weekend and wanted to meet up some time! Through out the day I also talked to 3 people who had a very bad day due to some personal issues. I was able to make them feel much better after talking to me! I thought that was not a bad day at all! Don't you guys think?

Today was my second trying this method. I was very excited about what was going to happen today. So again, in the morning I told myself that it was going to be a fantastic day! My energy level was high and my attitude was awesome! I even told eveyone I saw that I was going to make their day as well! I did it again! I asked for closing a deal, I got it in the mail! I wanted to do well at work in other areas, I did it! I learned how to shoot a gun which was something I had always wanted to do! I went to lunch with some coworkers, I believe I even made their days by making them laugh! I also told a couple strangers on the street to have a great day!! haha! Even though I'm feeling pretty tired from none-stop shooting for 3 hours I still feel like I had a great day! I know it may sound kind of corny to you. you might think how can it be possible that there's not one thing that bothers you through out the day? well, the truth is there have been things that would have bugged the heck out of me, but I chose to be HAPPY!

Happiness is really by choice. In fact, it's fully under one's control! Start being positive then happiness will find you. I talked about being excited about who you are going to meet next after your painful breakup in my early blog. Now, I suggest you to do that every day! Be excited about what's going to happen to you today! You might meet the one! You might find your dream job! you might get a raise at work! look forward to each every day in your life! Also spread out your positive energy to others around you! Trust me, if you do for others, you will get a great positive energy back from them as well and that will add to your current energy level which will make yours even stronger! who wouldn't want to be around you if you can bring happiness to everyone near you?! I don't think finding your soul mate will be such a big deal! again, he/she will come find you and attracted to you by your POSITIVE ENERGY!

Try it tomorrow and let me know how it goes! I want to hear from you!

Sunny