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Getting Ready for Love

By:	Torresrw
Mood:	In love
Date:	Mar 12, 2008
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Do we really need to get ready for love? And how does one get ready for love? The answer one gives to these questions will depend on our understanding of love. We can say with confidence that we all have some idea of what love is, since we often hear or speak of true and false love. But when we talk about “falling in love,” what is our understanding of love. Does one fall in love by accident? Is love an accident in our lives or is it something we have a saying? What is then true and false love?Although we might get distracted by these additional questions that surround our topic, the purpose of this blog is to keep ourselves focused on “Getting Ready for Love.” Or more specifically, how does one get ready for love. All right, in order to go move forward with our discussion, I would like to hear your ideas. Write a line or two (I hope more than two) and share with us your insights. I look forward to hearing from you. Dr. J. Stuart Torres

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From: Amalynn
Mar 13 2008, 12:45 pm I think this is a very interesting topic, so I'd like to share my opinion. I am experiencing this first hand so it's not just a comment for me, but personal experience and revelation. So, here goes... First of all I personally think that "to get ready for or to love" it starts with loving yourself. When you love yourself, only then will you be allowed to see the beauty in others. It not only can affect your mental state of mind, but your physical well being too. When you love yourself you can be truely interested, truely love, and truely help straight from the heart. Loving yourself allows the conciousnessto assume the shape of love, which makes you at once living and loveable. However, on the flipside, most of us are stingy with the love we offer ourselves. We tend to block the flow of love in innumerable ways. Shame, guilt, anger and depression offer the standard forms of obstructions. Interestingly enough, the more talented and creative you are, the more you will probably come up with many ways to prevent yourself from loving yourself. So, there is my answer to the question "How does one get ready for love" Make your own recovery the first priority in your life. Progress not perfection is what we should be asking of ourselves. Love yourself, then you can love others.

From: redwaves
Mar 13 2008, 11:38 am I like this topic. I have been struggling in the past years trying to figure out what LOVE is? I feel like the more guys I date the more confused I get. I really don't know what love is any more! can someone tell me what it is and how it's supposed to feel like? Maybe Dr. J. Stuart Torres can answer this question for me and the rest of us here?